Which day of the week is it anyway?

Not sure why but I’ve lost track of which day of the week it is. I could have sworn today was Wednesday, but yesterday’s after school activities tells me otherwise. So Thursday it is then. So weird how the days just slip by, or bunch up, and become muddled together like that. Have been a fair bit busier this week, with meetings and such, so I’m not that surprised that I got a little turned around. Just feels odd when it happens. Vacations can do that to you.

My wife has three months left of her year off, and then two additional months of summer break before she returns to work. I can’t believe the time has rushed by so quickly. A year seems like it would feel longer. The summer months are a wash because she is always off anyway regardless of  this year’s sabbatical. I just can’t believe that my youngest will turn seven, and my wife’s year will come to a close. Lots has happened. Deaths and deterioration of family member(s), funerals ; no less than three, multiple family trips to the US and a whole slew of theme park visits, volunteering, and additional evenings of children’s programming. I think she has managed to read as much as she had hoped to. She got roped into doing her dying uncle’s taxes, which ate up a bunch of time, but a good year to have that than on a year when she was also working full time too. We spent a great deal of time at the cottage, which I know she loves, so I think we’ve made it mostly worth while. Had lots of time to reconnect while the kids are at school. Had lunch together a fair number of days. Had some small number of outings, just the two of us during the day. Lovely.

This coming September is going to be very quiet. I’ll feel very lonely once the new school year boots up once again. But that’s months away. Best to look at the here and now. First day of spring has come and gone. Now, of course we’ll have three or four days of snow and a deep freeze to stunt, or kill all of the lovely flowers and tree buds that got ahead of themselves due to the early warming streak.

I think I will tackle a massive clear out of the house in early September. We had hoped to do it this year, but it’s a big thankless job. So I’ll take it on myself like I did when my youngest finally started junior kindergarten years ago, and I had the time to myself to do so. The slow accretion of McDonald’s junk toys, and random craft piles is what gets me. Piles of drawings, the good and the rushed need to be sorted and recycled. Walls washed. Rooms declutter once more. As quickly as I can get things out of here, more stuff turns up. I think we can probably clear away the art station as both kids use the dining room table and not the station itself. It’s just a horizontal surface to hold additional junk. A la fig 1.

(Fig 1.) The over full art station with colouring books, pens, pencils, markers and crayons.

The kids still use all of the doll houses and doll related periphanalia so I’ll live with that for another several years. I’m good with that. No need for my mighty mites to grow up too fast. I like them as small kids. I just want cleaner toy storage, and a less messy house. Dream big my friends. Dream big I say!

Going on about books… again.

Took me a while but I finally finished Star Dragon, and it was interesting, but ultimately unfulfilling. Raised a lot of questions for the characters, and then chose not to answer any of them, really. It was a bit off putting to read the epilogue and it not cover any of the characters whatsoever. A near miss, but otherwise I felt it was interesting.

I bought the second and third Dune sequel novels and I am halfway through my fourth book for this year, that being Dune: Messiah. It’s far less densely packed than the first, and seems to be focused on political intrigue and Paul showing the seeds for his own downfall. A tragic charismatic leader who seems to lose control over his original message/leadership choices and can not temper the early savagery with his later goals of peace  throughout the universe. There’s more to it I’m sure, as I’m only 160 odd pages into it at this point. Good stuff though. I look forward to my fifth book which will be Children of Dune. Then I’ll move on to other writers and genres. I don’t think I need to read all five or six books in the series.

Anyway, it’s taxes day yet again. Want go get this over and done with soonish. Not my favourite task. Ciao Bella.

And… it was good news.

Even better than good, not exactly “GREAT” worthy, but still really good. No need for surgery at this time. More monitoring over the coming years. Fewer issues than suspected. One hardened, slightly thicker section of approximately 3.5cm. Located at the main sight of my disease. No need to alter meds. No new meds. No surgery is the key feature to this particular story!. Keep things in stasis and the last bit was a call to lose weight. Not too much, but to get to 180lbs in the next year or so would be beneficial. It could help with the heart burn /acid reflux too. So… yeah. Pretty decent news I’d say. A real load off my mind. Yay! **Happy flappy jazz hands**

You know what? I’ll take it. Score one win in my column for today. That made my day. Happy Tuesday to me.

What else is on the agenda for today? Taxes, taxes, taxes for one. That I need to keep moving forward on. Had the first round of reviews for the brand guidelines I’m building for a committee client, which will take some effort to get unanimous sign off on, I’m willing to bet. Also doing an editing sweep through my daughters book report. I need to ask her some direct questions as it’s on a book I have not read myself. I feel like a few of her answers need more context. If she can tie in a personal experience that would be a key element to capture. I think they call that a “text to self” connection.  Her rough drafts are getting better though, which is great to see.

What else? Hmm. I’m drawing a blank, so I’m going to cut & run. Chat again tomorrow.  Ciao Bella.

Getting close to my follow up appointment.

I have my fingers and toes crossed for good news, and if not good news then modestly ok news. But, regardless of what I find out, I will have lost sleep over it anyway. Not that I’m keen on being a worrier, but sometimes I just can’t seem to shake it from my mind. Getting busy, or going away has helped immensely with being able to set aside my anxiety surrounding what news I may/might get.

We were looking to pin point any/all bowel constrictions or possible obstructions. I was told that there were two suspected such items, but a potential for more. The MRI was to locate them, get a firm count, and then lead a discussion about how to deal with them in the future. Which I was told meant surgery. A minor bowel resection to remove the two 2-4cm sections. Laparoscopicly if at all possible I hope. Two button hole incisions are far better than one massive belly spanning gash. Atleast in my mind. I have a tough enough time healing as it is, do smaller cuts are better! Much, much better. I was told there would be no need to resort to a colostomy bag to help my guts heal, so I hope that still stands. But we’ll know after tomorrow’s appointment.

Otherwise it’s the first Monday back after March Break, and the dastardly time change. Plus it’s bitterly cold here, and thanks… I hate it. Going from 90°F to low 30’s °F is not my favourite thing. That’s how you get sick with these wild temperature swings. Tan seems to be holding up for now. It’ll fade real quick in this grey cold gloom. Bah. Humbug.

Ciao Bella.

Sleeping on Super Charged Batteries.

Whatever combination of sunshine, heat, fun, two or three two hour long swims a day, long walks about the resort village, or the current time change, that it was, it has left me unable to fall asleep at night until about 3:00am or later. I don’t know if being a boring lump whom suddenly Pumps Up the Jam for eight days straight, and then returns home to a quiet life of lumpishness is what’s doing it, or if I have insomnia about my MRI results again, i don’t know. But it is irritating. I’m going to need to find a very physical activity to do here in the cold that saps my strength in a similar way, because my 7:00am wake up for school is going to get ugly fast if i can’t fall asleep until 3:00am, instead of around 10:00pm for the foreseeable future. Can all that vitamin D from the southern Florida sun supe up your internal batteries? I don’t know. Feels like it can. I’m buzzing. Brrrt!

Maybe a vigorous walk around the farm will help temper all this pent up energy. It isn’t like I’m snacking on high sugar treats well into the evening, or pounding sodas to keep me wired awake at night.i don’t drink coffee, or tea, nor espressos or cappuccinos either. If anything I’m taking in more water here than while I was away. Hm. A real conundrum. A puzzle, if you will. I shouldn’t be worried about work projects. I have submitted samples and am waiting on a data sheet. I filed paperwork for the non-profit on time, and I’m in the process of getting my taxes sorted out ahead of April. So those shouldn’t be a factor, atleast not consciously anyway. I’m back in my own bed at night, which I prefer to where I was sleeping in the Keys. My room is a lot darker than the one I stayed in too, so it shouldn’t be a matter of light pollution. Our neighbourhood is pretty tame, so it isn’t a noise issue. I think it’s just energy. I was building up and expending lots of energy when we swam for 90-150 minutes two or three times a day. Plus walks, and beach combing with the kids. I was even riding a fixed gear bike around the resort grounds once or twice.

I absolutely detest the cold so I get pretty sedentary between December 1st, and April 15th, where our weather is just The Worst. I need to figure something out. I know that the heat itself down there does a lot to sap my strength and make me tired. Plus all that fresh sea salt air that can make me tired like it does on the lake at the cottage. Probably a collection of things.

I felt just like this when I had to do both courses of Steroids for my guts. I slept maybe three hours a day, and felt like I could punch a mountain. I got so much done during those eleven weeks. Was also pretty irritable, bordering on angry towards the end of those courses too. Now, I’m not mad, just annoyed at myself for not falling asleep at a reasonable time.

Make up dates… and their associated trauma.

We were gone for two consecutive Wednesdays so that means my children missed out on two gymnastics classes. My wife, being the sweetheart that she is, has booked a make-up session for our girls so that they can get the most out of a high cost, pre-paid for program that they do. This has obviously crossed a line somewhere and both kids are melting down about having to go, and do an hour of gymnastics this afternoon. Oh my. The horror. How could you infringe upon their March Break Minecraft madness sessions.

I will say that we swam 2 or 3 times a day, and went on various other adventures in the sun, so they had plenty of physical activity. Just not of an organized kind, like Dance, Girl Guides, Taekwondo or the before mentioned Gymnastics. And yet, the shit fit continues. So that should be fun to look forward to in four hours time. Yeah!

Saturday is here, and it’s cold again. Grey skies and lots of cloud cover. It couldn’t be any different from our vacation if it tried. I for one miss being outdoors so much, and I really miss the swimming. So much so that I find myself with too much energy at night, and I am unable to sleep. I was able to ride a fixed gear bicycle in the Keys, and swim, walk about, beach comb and just enjoy the outdoors. Yes I had to wear SPF 50 sun shirts, or cake on the sun screen to comfortably do so, but I like warmth far more than the cold. I am looking forward to being outside here to trim our hedges and start on the lawn. I’m actually going to have the lawn aerated this year. For the first time ever. Might even go for a Weed- Man spray too. But I’m not sure yet. I’m not entirely sold on the need for a perfect carpet of green grass. I’m pretty partial to the blues and purples of some of our lawns weeds. And the pop of yellow from dandelions is a nice touch. Plus those help out the honey bees in their time of need. I’m a leaf mulcher, not a bagger & get rid of’er. Keep those nutrients near by, in the beds. Gives toads and such a warm place to hide for the winter, and it protects my bulbs from squirrels and chipmunks. Little bastards.

I’m sure our elderly neighbours hate us because we are so laissez-faire with the grass. I find a saturated all green carpet of grass is a good magnet for attention. Makes you look wealthy, and catches the eye of thieves and burglar types. My ratty-tatty lawn definitely does not scream wealth lives here. Mainly because it doesn’t,  wealth that is, but no point dressing the place up to look like it does and inviting unwanted, potentially dangerous attention. That’s how I feel about it. Kooky as it sounds. The old slightly rusty minivan does a lot to keep us grounded, and not looking too eye catching either. My 18 year old lawn mower says a lot about our household too. Ha. No diamonds here I’m afraid. Lots of rocks, but no gems. The kids weekly evening programming took care of that!

I have begun the process of doing my taxes. That’s always an eye opener. Will need to spend some time on that before we get into April. The dreaded tax season! Aah.

Hopefully you all enjoy your Saturday, the last one of March Break 2024. School is back in as of Monday. We wish you all well. Ciao Bella.

Traveling with Crohn’s Disease is a lesson in patience, and timing.

Am I sad I missed two, three hour plus long boat trips with my wife and kids? Yes, yes I am, but the carnage I dealt to the bathroom said I made the correct choice to stay in and be within ten steps of the can the whole time. Having to pee off of a moving boat is one thing, but the guttural machinations of my innards are best left away from spectators eyes. It’s not a team sport, and I don’t need cheerleaders. Although on our last day I did get out to swim in the ocean and have an hour long ride with the family. I burned my legs and hands, obviously, but had a good time. Seas were a little rough going but I managed to not get seasick. Lovely! The aquamarine colour was to die for. A big expanse of nearly cloudless sky overhead, and salty sea waves to float in with my children. Next time we will try snorkel masks and breathers and attempt to skulk around a small reef to look at some fish.

I’m glad I had the time to wait for a better opening on the boat trips, so I didn’t have to forgo all of them. I had bought some fresh Twisted Tea, but could drink only one of the twelve. If my guts are in a better mood next visit I can try my hand at one or two more. I wanted a six pack, as that feels more manageable to me. But no glass on the pool deck, so the larger can assortment it was! I should have stuck with the original or just half & half’s, as the raspberry was not to my liking. Live and learn.

I was able to swim a fair bit atleast. Knowing there are clean toilets all throughout the grounds makes it easier to go and do something for an hour without worrying about having to run all the way back to my room to avert a crisis. Ha. I run to my room while it runs down my leg. And what a glorious couple of runners we are. Argh!

It was 16°C here the day we came home but it is now 2-5°C and rainy. Gotta love it. I’ve gone grocery shopping, and answered a few emails, and done a little work today. Off to a good start. Take care out there. Ciao Bella!

First day back in the really real world.

Vacation is done, flight landed around midnight, got through customs by one, and our ride home got us in safely just before two. By the time we watered, brushed, and consoled our kids we were in bed ourselves by three this morning. It is lovely to be home in our own beds. The Florida Keys are a wonderful island time kind of place. But being home is truly where I am able to relax. However, swimming, boat trips, and a face full of sunshine with heat is hard to beat. A very nice get away to ring in March Break on my wife’s year off. We don’t typically travel over peak times like this, but leaving early, and returning midweek was very cost effective.

I swam out in the open ocean with my kids for the first time in five or so years. Very clear blue, and not as warm as the pool. Thankfully. Pool was hot, almost bathtub temperatures! Taking the kids with our SPF 50 sun shirts to swim two or three times a day was really great. Over the winter I really miss the outdoors.

We even ventured down to Key West for a hot day trip. Had some Cuban food, wandered a few museums, and walked down by the gigantic cruise ships along the water front. Finding parking in Key West was a challenge. Didn’t help that we were in such a large vehicle. Key West was not built for extended oversized SUV’s, and 10,000 walking cruise goers at the same time. Was nearly three hours going down, and two and a half hour drive back. The kids were champs and held it together fairly well. It was hot, bright, and tiring.

Somewhere out in the Atlantic.
Being brave, but ultimately second person in after I jumped in first.
Me absent mindedly burning both legs on our last day.
Calm waters by the route markers.
The canal we called home for the eight days in Key Largo.
Treasure hunting for gems, crystals and coins of any sort.
Carnival cruise ship down in Key West.
A random Mc Donald’s with a fantastic view.
Kayak collection down on the beach.
An alternate view of the canal from our portion of the dock.

Back to the real world now. Work to start/finish. Groceries to get. Mail and packages to go collect. Kids to keep occupied for the remainder of the break. We had a few tears when we had to leave the vehicle once at the airport. The youngest wasn’t ready to leave grandma & grandpa behind for a few days by themselves. After she ate she perked up. We flew in a fairly sizable 787, with three rows of three seats and two aisles. Tonnes of overhead space too. First time I’ve done a Duty Free run in ages.

Best eat some breakfast and get back to work! Ciao Bella.

Bacon on the grill.

To make the house smell less, and to consume more bacon more frequently we have taken to cooking our bacon out on the BBQ grill. I can also wait for the pan to cool, and scrape off the grease outside so as to not have to worry about that either. Straight into the green bin, never to have been inside! Far less tasteable smoke, and hanging grease in the air, or particles on the stove top, and upper cabinets. I also don’t seem to get spattered anywhere as much out by the bbq than standing over a frying pan at the stove. Far preferable if you ask me.

I think today is Wednesday. Atleast I hope it is otherwise I may miss a fairly important event. Or could miss one if I lose track of Friday. I’m supposed to grab my inlaws from the airport when they come back from the Florida Keys. Can’t forget about them! They are a tad important to next months plans! Crucial even.

Finding something to eat which doesn’t upset my delicate balance.

I bought a bunch of cereal recently  ut I can’t eat it because the dairy and fiber will both set me off in equal measure. Perhaps some plain toast with nothing on it would help. Although I did have a nice bit of chicken & fish yesterday which don’t seem to have had any after effects. Noice!

I recently sat down to watch the Austin Butler, and Tom Hanks led Elvis movie, found on Netflix. Besides hating Tom Hanks’ character and voice (choices were made) it was a tremendous film. Like a biopic on lsd. Hyper saturated colours, frenetic pace, cgi transitions of a zany sort, and incredible music. Tip of the hat to them both. To Austin Butler for doing a truly tragic rendition of Elvis with all its heart and soul, and to Tom Hanks for making me hate him with a passion. Bravo.  Well done. I might just watch it again some time soon. I’m a fan.

Otherwise today is Tuesday, garbage day, and I have no plans to be anywhere today. Did a lot of running around yesterday. All told spent nearly six hours in the car driving all around. The kids were champs about it. I give them props for being so well behaved for so long.

March Break is here, and all the things are busy. May need to rethink the Kung Fu Panda 4 experience, as I fear it will be rammed full of sickly kids with coughs, colds, sore throats, and runny noses & fevers. That’s how I see crowds now. Not as people, but as vectors for pathogens I don’t want to catch or track home with us. Yuck. So gross. And I used to sit elbow to elbow with these people and just roll the dice on catching a flu, cough or cold. Craziness. Ewwww!

A week today and I get my MRI results! Take care out there. Ciao Bella.