Taking a turn for the worse.

My wife’s grandmother, whom is in an assisted living facility, and recently passed her 97th birthday has become unresponsive, not asleep but out cold. She has a DNR, so is currently being watched by staff at the facility but is not being treated with anything beyond fluids (as per usual, she hasn’t been able to chew solid foods in at least two years now) via IV, and potentially any pain meds they might think will keep her peaceful. Not great timing, I mean it is never a good time to die, but my eldest daughter starts her six show run today of their stage play Newsies, and then the cast party, and our trip out west for my side of the family reunion. I don’t want to lie to our kids should she pass, but I also don’t want them inconsolable and unable to finish the stage show, or our trip. She is not dead, as of right now, so it could be a moot point, so I’ll not worry about it, as much as I am able to. But of a worrier. No need taking on more as she has had dips before, and emerged no worse for wear on the other side of things. The lady can take a fair bit, she had a pet bear as a child up in the Sault you know! Grit. Hard wearing woman.

I am now charged with packing their gear, doing laundry, and double/triple checking we have enough stuff. It really is a short trip, two of the four days will be consumed by cross country travel, so it shouldn’t be too crazy. I took them to Florida myself only a few months back, so I’ve done this before. They are also no longer tiny babies, so much easier to travel with no car seats, strollers, baby bags, diapers, and wipes at this stage. Tablets and their back packs, and away we go! Fingers crossed.

I think today is Wednesday. These short holiday weeks are always a toss up on whether or not I know where I am in the week, on any given day. Had to drop off my eldest at the theater across town earlier than usual, and then get back to take my youngest to class at the school. Still walked the dog. If I recall, I get my youngest from school at regular time, then take her to tutoring, and then grab my eldest from the theater later on. By then her first three full shows will be done. Half way to the cast party at that point.

Tomorrow her day is broken up into two parts. An early morning at the theater, and then an evening final showing which I will actually get to be in attendance of. Pumped! Looking forward to it. They have been hard at work on this production since September. I think my daughter will be very happy once it is all over though. She will get her lunches, and snack recess time back to go outside, and play with friends instead of rehearsing all the time. It’s been a long, long time to stay laser focused on this project. Especially for grade schoolers, they aren’t even high school, or junior high aged kids.

I’ll have to buy her some flowers tomorrow. Anyway, happy Wednesday. Ciao Bella!