Month: November 2025

Battery went dead while driving, so battery got a boost, and a new alternator put in too. All that left us to do on it was an oil change. So 8 ran over to Canadian Tire for a Frame CH9018 filter, and 5L of Pennzoil high mileage SAE 5W 30. picked up the wrong oil at first, the labels all look identical. I saw 5w 30, and thought 8 grabbed it, snagged the one directly to the right apparently. Got to the car to double check against my instructions and low and behold, wrong oil can. Exchanged it easily enough and got back on the road.

Took the vehicle to the farm to drain, and add in the new oil. Old stuff came out like liquid charcoal. So black! We had it changed at the end of August, the 29th according to my records. So… That’s odd.

Next up was the oil filter and it turns out we do not have a 32 mm socket for the hard to reach and deeply inset filter cover. So I drove it home to check because I did at one point but a docket specifically for oil filters. But that was for the old van. Wrong size. Glad I checked though. Add a 32 mm socket to the list of items we need on hand. So my FIL drove to the mechanics, and asked Bryan to borrow his 32mm socket with extension to get into the hard to reach cavity. Took a bit to get it to come loose, but we got it done. With all the driving, shopping, waiting, draining, fighting with mismatched sockets, we took about 3.5 hours to get this twenty odd minute job done.

But if I get the oil, filter, sockets, and can dispose of the oil in the drum at the farm I can do our own oil changes for less than half the price of Jiffy Lube, or Canadian Tires service centre.

The only reason I did do it myself was because CT is booked solid through November for tire changes due to all of this early snow. Which funnily enough I had previously swapped out my wife’s tires, so she’s all set now that the car is up & running. I have to do the van still. I regret not doing it that same weekend. But it really does my back in with all that bending over, leaning, torquing of the wheels etc… needs to be done soon though now that we have snow of the ground.

Today is Remembrance Day here in Canada & the UK, and Veterans Day in the USA. So things will be quiet about town as some offices are closed to mark the day. Banks get the holiday. My kids school is at capacity for the gymnasium, so families can no longer go and enjoy the assembly, and the children’s poems, and songs. Perhaps for Christmas they will open the school up once more. Who knows?

We have Parent Teacher night conferences coming up next week just before the last PA Day of 2025. I think my kids are likely doing ok. Could improve in a few areas no doubt. So I’m not as worried about them as I could be. We have the youngest in tutoring because Covid really stymied her early education. But after another year or two she should be all caught up to grade level, and that’s all that matters.

I had one other item I was looking to discuss but it has slipped my mind. Otherwise I will say thank you to everyone whom has downloaded a free copy of my two books of collected short stories. I hope you like, some, parts, or all of either one, or both. I am pleased to see I am getting closer to 100 downloads of each as we get closer and closer to years end. You’ve earned my heart just a bit! Thank you.

It wasn’t the doggo whom caused the puddle/leak upon the basement floor, it was the drain line for the furnace humidifier. I must have bumped it when doing all that laundry, dislodging the end from the drain hole, causing it to pour water into the floor under the storage racks where I could not see it, which worked its way under the wall, below the flooring to pool in the middle of the next room. So now that I’ve checked all the window wells, hot water tank, water softener and water pipes, this looks to be the one, and ONLY culprit. Let us hope I have got it sorted out. This is a nuisance, not a tragedy. I can solve for x here without too much to go wrong. Nice!

To my puppers “I’m very sorry I accused you of peeing in the basement”. Seemed very out of turn for our camel based pup. Glad to see I was proven wrong about the pee, and correct about the puppies “Good boy-ness” disposition in general and bladder control more specifically. All good. Extra treat today for breakfast.

It is still snowing. Not ideal. I am not too keen on snow this early in the year, as we haven’t even gotten out of autumn yet. Still several long weeks to go until we actually hit winter. Let us hope this is all gone by late in the day Tuesday, or Wednesday morning. Blah. Hate the snow. Does make out Christmas lights look all the more thematic though. Like I didn’t rush to get them up or anything, whilst they sparkle in the snow! Ha.

I even ventured to take apart the lint trap on the dryer yesterday to suck out all the left over lint, and dust, and crud that accumulates around the screen. I couldn’t get the trap to seat one hundred percent back down into the well, so I undid four screws. Popped the cover open wide, and stuffed the vacuum hose down there. I was killing time before I had to pick up my eldest from a birthday party, so I didn’t get as much of it as I had hoped, but I got a bunch, and the dryness of the clothes coming out seems a bit crisper. That’s a good sign. Increased air flow should mean better dried linens.

Here we are on Monday. I need to vacuum and mop these floors! Yikes. The family tracked in a whole lot of dirt from their Girl guide Camp experience. I knew I saved the floors until later for a reason. I just had an inkling that something like this might go down. Bonus that it’s still snowing so the kids had to wear all their gear to school this morning. Not left on the floor, like their indoor shoes, and extra gloves. A saving grace, if you will.

My wife and I have a date night planned for Friday evening, so I hope that that goes off without a hitch. We will drive to the venue, have a lovely dinner together, then mosey on over to the show, and hopefully be back on the road home a couple of hours later. There and back again in the same evening. Golden! Looking forward to it.

Shame I got so much done this weekend, feel like I wasted it being too productive. I’d feel just as bad had I done nothing at all but scroll on my phone, eat pizza, and watch movies. I’m done outdoors (besides snow shoveling at this current point in time), and the lights look ok, grass is cut, leaves are as good as they are going to get. Got the bricks up out of the farm gardens too. Pulled up some thirty off dead pepper plants, and soon we can pull the tarps up, and store those for the winter too. We pulled up all of the cages for the climbing plants too. Like I said, very productive.

The kids and wife had two more loads of laundry to go through last night. So six in total — holy shit! That’s far too many articles of clothing for three people. Mind you I did run towels through after I mopped the basement floor, SO seven washed & dried loads in a weekend. That’s insane. You know what, I’m going to strip their beds, and wash those sheets now too. Might as well.

Not sure why, he went out just before 11:00 pm when I went to bed. He even followed me downstairs to sleep on me instead of taking an empty child’s bed. He didn’t bark, or scratch, or whine in my ear to go out, just relieved himself in the middle of the basement floor. Glad for vinyl tiles at this point. Between the multiple dogs having peed down here, flooding from snow thaws, and overflowing water softeners the basement floor has seen a whole lot of liquid action over the years. Spent several minutes this morning washing, spray foaming, wiping, and mopping the floor clean. Not my fondest Sunday morning memory.

Family has been away for two consecutive nights, and I am ready for those little noise machines to come back home. I was productive yesterday, a little too productive so the day got away from me, and when I wanted to let loose, I was exhausted, and called it quits by eleven pm. Boo! Boo I say! I was going to do so much nothing. So much of it, instead I walked the dog twice, stacked two pallets of bricks, put up all of our exterior Christmas lights on the house, cleaned the gutters and downspouts inlets, wrapped two trees in lights using a ladder, which was way harder than I was ready for, and took 10X the amount of time I usually devote per tree to get it done. Came inside and did four separate loads of laundry. Tidied up the living room, dining room, and kitchen table tops, and general living areas. Watched Walk Hard the Dewey Cox Story, because I haven’t done so in forever, watched the extended unrated cut while I was at it, had to be nearly 3 hours long. Did all that and not much else, except eat pizza for two meals.

I’ll save my other house work for tomorrow, because today I just want to chill out, and relax before my family comes home to dump all their stuff at the front door, and wander off leaving it there for hours, or days. I didn’t have any visiting guests so the inside of the house is not as clean as it could/should be. I didn’t go on a murderous rampage with a garbage bag, and ruthlessly purge the kids rooms. They are old enough to sort their own shit out now, my little hoarders. Keep all the trash and stuff they can get their tiny little baby hands on. Children. Such fun. So while I was productive, it was aimed mostly outside of the house. I didn’t go on a cleaning binge, which is always easier when nobody else is here.

It is currently snowing. Not a lot, but enough that it is sticking around a little bit. Glad I got to the lawn and leaves when I did, not waiting for Thursday of this week because it was supposed to be warm, and sunny, and above zero degrees Celsius. Never can count on the weather forecast, so I hustled to get the lawn, and leaves, and lights done ahead of schedule. I got impatient and plugged the lights into the timer, and we are officially lit up for the holidays now. It’s been so grey lately, I needed a little illumination pick me up.

The kids have asked about the tree already, so that will likely go up next Saturday. Leaving it for well after Remembrance Day this year. By four days, give or take twelve hours. Feels like an ok compromise. The vets get unfettered attention on their day, and we get to add some sparkle, and colour into our lives for a full six weeks or so pre Christmas Eve, Christmas, Boxing day, and New Year’s Eve.

By January the snow settles in, and all the colour goes away, and we begin the year anew. Fun. I have a habit of taking down the tree and interior decorations on January first. By then I am happy to see it go back to normal, and recoup the floor space. If it were up to the kids they’d likely leave the tree up, and decorated until Valentine’s Day, or beyond! Madness.

Didn’t do quite as much as I had hoped, but!, I did order myself a pizza, walk the dog, watch a movie, be social for two hours after driving friends to & from said social event (a forty first surprise birthday soiree) and then have a warm couch cuddle with my dog. All before heading to bed at the very reasonable hour of 12:30 am.

Now I have gathered up the girls laundry, and started one of three – possibly four loads of washing. I will take the dog for a walk at the farm since we missed that due to car issues, and heavy rains earlier in the week. If it looks reasonable upon our return I might even venture to put up the exterior Christmas Lights, but I promise nothing! Any hint of wind, rain, or other adverse conditions and I’m waiting for Thursday’s somewhat nicer day on the weather network app to do that task.

Besides tidying up around here, and doing laundry, I don’t have any plans. I will definitely watch some movies, and eat pizza, and play my guitar really loudly. But otherwise I am probably going to waste the day doing odd tasks off & on throughout. I shan’t be hyper productive, but I also won’t wake & bake the day away you know. If snow is coming tomorrow, then doing the lights now might be beneficial. Ask me after I go walk the dog for an hour.

As far as being alone for the weekend – I’m fine with it. It is rather pleasant for the first three to six hours, and then the house feels too quiet. Though I have grumbly Ma Ghee here with me (a.k.a the dog) so I’m not totally alone, or free to do as I please.

I pruned some offending branches yesterday afternoon, and cut down some of the dying plants because I always forget to do that sort of thing. Then the snow catches me unaware and I end up having to wait another year to get around to the finer details of the property maintenance. Not so this year! No November travel plans, so I can focus on the yard for a change. I also remembered to grease the AC unit’s fan before covering it off, and I greased all of the exposed hinges on the back screen door. Score!

I spent much of the previous week on a large report. One of three I have left for this year. It’s off for review right now, so I expect Monday to come with edits to make. And then report two will follow quickly on its heels I’d bet. Saving the last for very early December would be my guess. I haven’t looked at the total numbers for the year, but it’s looking to be trending downwards again. Ho-hum. Really shouldn’t go buy the log splitter I’ve been watching that’s just gone on sale then huh. Best to be smart about it! Save those dollars and cents. Save, save, save where you can!

Christmas may be scaled way back this year too. More so than last year, I’m sad to say. The kids don’t really need “things“, so much as clothes that fit properly, and shoes that are the correct size, and snow pants, boots and the like. Everyday important items instead of just toys. This year especially they have both leaned hard into tablet use. Maybe nicer headphones? But neither of them take care of their stuff so not too nice or we’ll get angry when they abuse it carelessly. Plus the oldest has her birthday in December which makes Christmas presents even more difficult because we probably just got her things she needs. Fun times.

Last night I watched Moneyball, a classic baseball film if ever I saw one. My go tos for home viewing are: Scott Pilgrim vs the world, Nick & Nora’s infinite playlist, Accepted, The Onion Movie, Apollo 13, and if it were any closer to Christmas then a whole laundry list of holiday favourites. Those films keep me entertained when I am by myself, without getting too sad, or too manic while I’m home alone. A pleasant even keel.

Have a wonderful Saturday. Chat with you again soon. Ciao Bella!

No major issues this time around, simply here for the yearly teeth cleaning the dentist suggested on Tuesday. I of course am elbow deep into a report, but I have the flexibility to take the kids to appointments and adjust my work day to compensate. If I have too I will work late into the evening after taekwondo. I was going to give my report a third session last night, but I felt like resting my wrist would be of more use to me over the  course of the month. I can work much later tomorrow evening if I absolutely have to to get this current report off for review.

The dentist is talking to me, so I need to cut this short. Seems my daughter has not been doing a very good job of brushing her teeth in the manner that I have instructed her. She is now going to have to endure the tooth pain, and gum tenderness because of it.byou can lead a child to the sink, tooth paste, and tooth brush, but you cannot make them brush properly on their honour alone it would seem.

Eldest daughter has cracked a molar and needs an extraction on the affected baby tooth. Not much going to happen today as I need to be there at the dentist’s office instead of working around the house today. Good thing I got so much done here yesterday in the pouring rain. Now all I have left is the grass, and Christmas lights. Possibly one tree limb removal – but that has yet to be determined. May me please get another nice day for outdoor work in the near future!?!

Turns out, not so bad after all. Dentist removed fragment of cracked baby tooth (molar) after taking X-rays and having a look for herself. Found three other wiggly teeth that should come out sooner rather than later. Just in time for Christmas I’ll wager. No pain today luckily. Going back Thursday morning for her teeth cleaning, and an update to her files/notes etc…

Because we were done so quickly my daughter got back to school in time to enjoy recess, and more importantly she will be available, and not swollen or numbed up for Picture Day today. That’s a win in our book.

Moreover I was able to cut the grass today, and headed back to the farm with the doggo to gather up ten 16 litre pails of rocks that I had set off to the sides of the big field, and dumped those in the culvert out of everyone’s way. Took some doing as I filled all ten pails to the brim. Likely 95 lbs or there abouts in every pail. Now residing comfortably in the culvert away from the farm equipment, lawn mower blades, and mobility vehicles. Got more done today than I thought I was going to do. That’s great news! Did not get the Christmas lights up, so I still need to find the time for that in the next couple of weeks. Which means cleaning the gutters as I go, and maybe cutting one last limb out of the dying Maple on our front lawn. I can find things to occupy myself outside if I need to (should we have nice enough days where I’d want to be outside tinkering with no paid work to attend to that is.)

Time change still has me feeling a bit off lately. The dog is not a fan of the time difference and is trying to get me up before I want to be up. It’s a bit of a thing really. The sun goes down real fast now, so I don’t think 8 have enough sunlight to work on lights once I bring the kids home after school. I could try I suppose. Nah! I’ll leave it for another mild day.

And get on with all of these leaves, and put the lawn to bed before the snow comes along to put a halt to everything for the rest of the year.

Things I did this morning; take down all seven inflatables, stakes, pins and all. Dry them, and drain them if rain water accumulation. Put them back up on the top of the metal rack. Our newest edition, the large green snake was boxed up, and all the sections, stakes and cords got filed away together over top of the garage door.

Dig up, prune, and dry all twelve Dahlias, which go into a box stuffed with towels and left in the basement for the winter.

Plant nearly three hundred tulip bulbs in various stages of decay, and disrepair in hopes at least a handful survive until the spring to add a pop of pizzazz to our front garden beds.

Take up, and mulch a month’s worth of fallen leaves from our fairly sizeable front yard. I hate doing leaves when the Halloween decorations are up because the guide wires are a tripping hazard. So I did the leaves and grass before erecting them all. And now it’s all torn down 8 can attempt a final grass cutting tomorrow if the weather holds. I want at least one more before the snow comes.

Now it’s after two, and I’m going to slake my thirst, eat some lunch, and crash from last night emotional roller coaster of a Game Seven of the World Series where the Jays lost by one run in extra innings. Damn. Double damn. Spent five hours in a bar with friends to watch it which was great. But not the outcome we were hoping for. Oh well, maybe next year!

Not much of a lazy Sunday if you ask me.